GAH! my game is wack!

[Fitseries3]

its been 7 years since i've been up on my game. i've totally forgotten how to get the ladies.

im trying to talk to this girl i really really like but i have no idea what to say next.

im 25 and shes 20. if it matters, she fits my view of the kinda girl i'd like to be with forever. she's hot, interesting, funny and lots of other things that i like. she's 5'5", brown hair, brown eyes, athletic build, wears clothes that are both sexy and cute. yes.. i think im infatuated but thats why i dont want to fuck this up. :D

what do i say ??? i can "be myself" but i dont want to be too aggressive.

thanks in advance :D

[T3hPwn3r3r]

Sell yourself!

[Fitseries3]

this girl throws alot of curveballs at me. im SO lost in talking to her.

[T3hPwn3r3r]

As I said, not until you become a master salesman can you become a master ladygetter

[Fitseries3]

should i flat out tell her what i think/like about her?

[mlee49]

No women like a bit of mystery. Trust me, going all in this early will rush her off.

Play your cards in equal turns. Ask her out to coffee, and keep it short. Maybe an hour max. Ask her if she would like to do it again sometime, next time being dinner. Take her to the Plaza or some place that will give you guys something to do after dinner. Buy her flowers and compliment her on her hair. Girls always spend too much time on their hair so when anyone notices they like that.

[DrPepper]

Just be natural about it don't think just talk like it's anyone else.

[momentomoir]

how bout advice from a woman since your problem is with a lady

i say be yourself girls prefer that but not the whole burping and farting self just yet
and dont be judgmental girls prefer honest not to quick to juudge easy relaxing guys thats what we look for in a guy we plan on staying with

girls taste do very whether they prefer geeks, athletes, fat, skinny ect

[DanTheBanjoman]

So you already think she's the type you'd be forever yet you can't even talk to her? Interesting.

[Magibeg]

"she's hot, interesting, funny and lots of other things that i like. she's 5'5", brown hair, brown eyes, athletic build, wears clothes that are both sexy and cute"

I dunno, sounds more like my kinda girl and outta your league ;) j/k j/k

Just be nice to her for no reason at all consistently, unless of course shes one of those girls that likes being treated like crap. Straight up just be yourself because there's too many factors to consider, none of us here know anything about her really, and even if we did you're still on techpowerup general nonsense forums.

[Fitseries3]

So you already think she's the type you'd be forever yet you can't even talk to her? Interesting.

haha.... i know quite a bit about her but she doesnt know much about me. im shy for some reason and i dont know exactly what to say.... how soon is to soon to tell her how i feel

[DanTheBanjoman]

haha.... i know quite a bit about her but she doesnt know much about me. im shy for some reason and i dont know exactly what to say.... how soon is to soon to tell her how i feel

Not sure if it exists in the English language, but in Dutch we have a thing called "spraakwater", or speechwater. Very effective.

[Jizzler]

Heh, a little speechwater helps me quite a bit.

[momentomoir]

take her out have a few drinks and then tell her and if she freaks out soo soon blame it on the alcohol

[Solaris17]

Not sure if it exists in the English language, but in Dutch we have a thing called "spraakwater", or speechwater. Very effective.

we have that. we say it "bacardi 151"

[Fitseries3]

fuck...

i tried callin her and she didnt answer after 4 rings so i hung up. didnt even think of leaving a msg though (dammit!)

what now?

i feel like a total noob at this stuff :p

[Magibeg]

Well you could just wait for a few days and call her again. If you call too often at this point she'll think you're a creeper, then again that also depends on how well she knows you, also if she has call display.

Just try to talk to her the next time you go out with the same group of friends. Give more focus towards her, ask leading questions, try to connect some like interests (You like x, we should go do x together one time). This will help you break the ice and she can get to know you for who you are in a one on one basis.

[erocker]

What is this spraakwater? I really need to know!

[Fitseries3]

same here... a few budlights tonight got me to ask her out. didnt quite get the answer i wanted though. :(

its not looking bad yet. she does want to do something. i just havent figured out what yet.

[Wile E]

Show her your dick. Works every time.

[skotosa]

I'm only 18 but I can defiantly say don't tell her straight away you like her. I did this to a girl in high school I really liked and she just said "But I don't even know you enough". Biggest Fail of my life. Good Luck.

[momentomoir]

I'm only 18 but I can defiantly say don't tell her straight away you like her. I did this to a girl in high school I really liked and she just said "But I don't even know you enough". Biggest Fail of my life. Good Luck.

thats the problem ur in hs not outa hs

[skotosa]

thats the problem ur in hs not outa hs

You don't say... I'm out of HS now and you suggest I continue this strategy?

[Black Panther]

Take her out dancing where drinks are freely flowing.

Then make sure she understands you're taking good care of her.
Don't let her drink too much, offer her a glass of water in between drinks (that way she'd remain sober). Make her drink half a glass if you want her to remain half sober.... :D
Basically I mean really do take care of her so that next day she wakes up nice and fresh thinking of you rather than dizzy and vomiting and not remembering which guy accompanied her the previous evening...

Then offer to drive her home.
Perhaps if you cando the "doe'eyes" you might persuade her on a sleep-over..... hmmm

Just be gentle, VERY gentle, the next morning...

i.e. wake up early......
....make a milky omelette,
....make some foamy hot chocolate....
... or a delicious cappuccino....

Then afte the meal close the blinds and perform what nature intended...:D

[Wile E]

Take her out dancing where drinks are freely flowing.

Then make sure she understands you're taking good care of her.
Don't let her drink too much, offer her a glass of water in between drinks (that way she'd remain sober). Make her drink half a glass if you want her to remain half sober.... :D
Basically I mean really do take care of her so that next day she wakes up nice and fresh thinking of you rather than dizzy and vomiting and not remembering which guy accompanied her the previous evening...

Then offer to drive her home.
Perhaps if you cando the "doe'eyes" you might persuade her on a sleep-over..... hmmm

Just be gentle, VERY gentle, the next morning...

i.e. wake up early......
....make a milky omelette,
....make some foamy hot chocolate....
... or a delicious cappuccino....

Then afte the meal close the blinds and perform what nature intended...:DThis is nothing more than the long version of this: http://generalnonsense.net/showpost.php?p=18324&postcount=20 :D

[Black Panther]

This is nothing more than the long version of this: http://generalnonsense.net/showpost.php?p=18324&postcount=20 :D

That might work if the girl is really very desperate, or you're paying her to be a whore. Otherwise nothing else much... :cool:

[Wile E]

That might work if the girl is really very desperate, or you're paying her to be a whore. Otherwise nothing else much... :cool:

Hmmmm, I see sarcastic humor escapes this one. In that case, he could always try this: (nutlick)

[momentomoir]

or just do what you are doing fits what ur iming me about her seems to work

[Chicken Patty]

damn fit. So just to be sure. whats the latest scoop on this? You guys plan a date or what?

[momentomoir]

theyre talking
i know the story

[Fitseries3]

fucking shit

she hasnt talked to me since saturday.

WTF now?

[Chicken Patty]

Have you tried contacting her FIT?

[Fitseries3]

yup. its a one sided convo now. :(

[Chicken Patty]

yup. its a one sided convo now. :(

hmmm, well I say leave it at that. If she wants to talk to you she'll come back to you. You think there is anything you might have done to piss her off
?

[Fitseries3]

maybe i was just too nice.

[Chicken Patty]

maybe i was just too nice.

can't be too nice neither, or you'll end up getting fucked.

is there anything you want to share with us as to what you think might have lead to her not talking to you?

[Fitseries3]

she worked all weekend so i left her alone sorta.

she did txt me on her breaks and those convo's went well.... i think.

i txt her good morning yesterday and today with no reply.

my sister is her friend and they talked this morning about the time i txted her.

[Chicken Patty]

she worked all weekend so i left her alone sorta.

she did txt me on her breaks and those convo's went well.... i think.

i txt her good morning yesterday and today with no reply.

my sister is her friend and they talked this morning about the time i txted her.

Has your sister shared any info at all with you?

[Fitseries3]

things with my sister are weird. its not comfortable to talk to her about it. she knows i like the girl and im sure the girl knows i like her.

[Chicken Patty]

things with my sister are weird. its not comfortable to talk to her about it. she knows i like the girl and im sure the girl knows i like her.

Well FIT, I think the best thing to do IMO, is to wait it out. She might come back to you. Maybe she's thinking something over. I've seen this happen. Just give her the time and space and in the meantime just keep doing what you need to do bro. (toast)