F*** my parents

[Kantastic]

They've been arguing all my life, enough so that I had stop high school for a year to go to a shrink for over a year on a weekly basis, and just a few days ago my dad tells me they've decided on a divorce. I've cared too much all my life, I'm fucking 16, I shouldn't have to worry about them hell it should be the other way around.

I honestly don't want to care anymore so I just went to my cousin's place for a few days and had lots of beer. I'll feel bad if I don't ride this wave of anger to it's fullest so I took my dad's CC statement and copied down the 16 digit number before I went and bought myself some goodies I've been wanting. I know I'll regret doing it because afterall it's still money, but right now I'm just laughing at that asshole's face when he sees this month's bill.

Should I shoot/stab them or should I just rough them up? I've been itching to have a go at my dad for a while now, I'll figure out something with my mom but one at a time. (I kid I kid... they're my (ugh) parents afterall... /rage)

WHERE'S THE BANGHEAD/ANGRY EMOTICON?!?!

[Black Panther]

Confront your parents and tell them the truth. You know it well:

They've been arguing all my life, enough so that I had stop high school for a year to go to a shrink for over a year on a weekly basis, and just a few days ago my dad tells me they've decided on a divorce. I've cared too much all my life, I'm fucking 16, I shouldn't have to worry about them hell it should be the other way around.



Sure what you did was wrong, but showing them how you've been feeling all along, showing them the hardship and pressure you felt, would express why you had to rebel.
If they don't understand that, take them to a shrink.
Sorry to have been so blunt, but I'm pretty sure it's a good solution.

[MRCL]

Your parents might suck now at your age, but later in life, you will deeply regret what you have done or planning to do. I hated my parents at your age. Now I'm glad for all they have done to me that made me sick out of my head back then. I'm just saying don't do anything stupid. Really. Do not fuck with your parents dude. I might not know how they raised you and all, but seriously calm down.

[momentomoir]

They've been arguing all my life, enough so that I had stop high school for a year to go to a shrink for over a year on a weekly basis, and just a few days ago my dad tells me they've decided on a divorce. I've cared too much all my life, I'm fucking 16, I shouldn't have to worry about them hell it should be the other way around.

I honestly don't want to care anymore so I just went to my cousin's place for a few days and had lots of beer. I'll feel bad if I don't ride this wave of anger to it's fullest so I took my dad's CC statement and copied down the 16 digit number before I went and bought myself some goodies I've been wanting. I know I'll regret doing it because afterall it's still money, but right now I'm just laughing at that asshole's face when he sees this month's bill.

Should I shoot/stab them or should I just rough them up? I've been itching to have a go at my dad for a while now, I'll figure out something with my mom but one at a time. (I kid I kid... they're my (ugh) parents afterall... /rage)

WHERE'S THE BANGHEAD/ANGRY EMOTICON?!?!
ive done that my mom gave me a credit card all i did was spend a shit ton on lunch
i got introuble

just talk to them if necessary bring a 3rd party in

[Kantastic]

I don't think it matters what I say, they've been inconsiderate shitheads all my life, why would they even think about changing? They've both been to a few therapy sessions but stopped going, for what reason I don't know nor do I care. Right now I'm just going to make it out of high school and into college as far from New York as possible, I swear by the head on my neck that I'm not going to ever step foot in New York again after I completely finish my education.

They raised me well, that's why they're still breathing, but I don't know them anything. All the suffering I've endured (courtesy of them) draws the line, we're completely even. Once I'm able to make it on my own (6-7 more years) I never want to see them again. Period.

I'm going to figure out how to transfer some money from the idiot's bank account to my own before he figures out when this month's statement comes, spend it all or take it all out at the ATM, then take a rest. I wasted my back shoveling this morning because someone wasn't home (guess who) and it was either me or the woman.

[Black Panther]

I just realised it also depends on how old you are.
It makes a difference if you're 15, 25 or 35....
Though it doesn't lessen the importance of how you feel at all.

(I could say a heck more about this being 34 myself, but I don't want to hijack your thread with my own issues lol!)

[Black Panther]

I don't think it matters what I say

I wouldn't definitely say so before you tried.

If the worse comes to the worst, then by all means find and live your own life...
A couple of years would pass and things would resolve by themselves.
It'd be everybody's fault and nobody's fault.
Often it takes two to tango, for someone to be misunderstood he can't be alone but in company. Only time and patience would tell.

[Wile E]

I don't think it matters what I say, they've been inconsiderate shitheads all my life, why would they even think about changing? They've both been to a few therapy sessions but stopped going, for what reason I don't know nor do I care. Right now I'm just going to make it out of high school and into college as far from New York as possible, I swear by the head on my neck that I'm not going to ever step foot in New York again after I completely finish my education.

They raised me well, that's why they're still breathing, but I don't know them anything. All the suffering I've endured (courtesy of them) draws the line, we're completely even. Once I'm able to make it on my own (6-7 more years) I never want to see them again. Period.

I'm going to figure out how to transfer some money from the idiot's bank account to my own before he figures out when this month's statement comes, spend it all or take it all out at the ATM, then take a rest. I wasted my back shoveling this morning because someone wasn't home (guess who) and it was either me or the woman.

You'll go to jail. You can be tried as an adult. It's not worth the risk, and is completely asinine to even consider.

And you are experiencing typical teenage rage towards your parents. Your situation is not special, or more severe, or different than countless others in your position.

You are taking the wrong attitude and approach and being completely immature, period. Talk to hat on tpu about shitty parents, see how he handles/handled it, then get back to me. That kid has gone thru a shitload more than you, and still maintains his wits and maturity. He's probably one of the most mature kids I've met for his age. Hell, I've been thru a fuck load more at your age, but didn't do anything as stupid as stealing their money, or threatening violence. There is NO justification for either action, plain and simple. They don't owe you shit. I did attempt to disown them after I left home, and did so for 6 years. After I grew up, I realized I was just being an immature asshole for doing that.

Sorry for being so direct, but you are quite simply in the wrong here.

[Black Panther]

Talk to hat on tpu about shitty parents, see how he handles/handled it, then get back to me.... He's probably one of the most mature kids I've met for his age.



+1 for that.

[erocker]

Ignore them. Read books. Get smart. Get a job better than your fathers. Make your parents jealous with your large house and luxury yacht. Send them fruitcake for Christmas.

[momentomoir]

Ignore them. Read books. Get smart. Get a job better than your fathers. Make your parents jealous with your large house and luxury yacht. Send them fruitcake for Christmas.

nice idea!!!

+1

[DanTheBanjoman]

http://www.jonco48.com/blog/fruitcake.jpg
What would they do with that during Christmas?

[DrPepper]

I'm itching to know what you were going to buy ?

I'd totally have done it and got away with it if I thought of it at the time. Anyway do what erocker said his advice was quite good.

[paulieg]

You'll go to jail. You can be tried as an adult. It's not worth the risk, and is completely asinine to even consider.

And you are experiencing typical teenage rage towards your parents. Your situation is not special, or more severe, or different than countless others in your position.

You are taking the wrong attitude and approach and being completely immature, period. Talk to hat on tpu about shitty parents, see how he handles/handled it, then get back to me. That kid has gone thru a shitload more than you, and still maintains his wits and maturity. He's probably one of the most mature kids I've met for his age. Hell, I've been thru a fuck load more at your age, but didn't do anything as stupid as stealing their money, or threatening violence. There is NO justification for either action, plain and simple. They don't owe you shit. I did attempt to disown them after I left home, and did so for 6 years. After I grew up, I realized I was just being an immature asshole for doing that.

Sorry for being so direct, but you are quite simply in the wrong here.

I have to agree with this 100%. My father was a violent, womanizing drunk who beat the crap out of me until I was 10, when my mother final came to her senses and left him. Oh, and in the 2 years after she left him, she tried committing suicide numerous while me and my little brother were in the house. I was angry and mean for years because of it. Where did the anger ever get me? Nowhere. All it got me was trouble. As Erocker said, the best way to retribution is to do better for yourself, and show them that you were ok despite them.

[jmcslob]

They've been arguing all my life, enough so that I had stop high school for a year to go to a shrink for over a year on a weekly basis, and just a few days ago my dad tells me they've decided on a divorce. I've cared too much all my life, I'm fucking 16, I shouldn't have to worry about them hell it should be the other way around.

I honestly don't want to care anymore so I just went to my cousin's place for a few days and had lots of beer. I'll feel bad if I don't ride this wave of anger to it's fullest so I took my dad's CC statement and copied down the 16 digit number before I went and bought myself some goodies I've been wanting. I know I'll regret doing it because afterall it's still money, but right now I'm just laughing at that asshole's face when he sees this month's bill.

Should I shoot/stab them or should I just rough them up? I've been itching to have a go at my dad for a while now, I'll figure out something with my mom but one at a time. (I kid I kid... they're my (ugh) parents afterall... /rage)

WHERE'S THE BANGHEAD/ANGRY EMOTICON?!?!
I think you had the right idea to find some place comfortable for yourself to come and Vent.

Yes several other people have gone through similar situations and have come out of OK and I think you will too, a lot of us here have gone through quite a bit of shit ourselves. But this thread is about you and your issues


Just remember to keep Venting, and not so much on the acting.Ok
I know you are 16 but

I'd like to give you some advice that I live by...
Don't drink alcohol, or smoke weed while you are upset about anything.

Wait until you get "whatever" sorted out and drink/smoke for fun, if you need something to help you cope with whats going on, turn to your friends or Family members that are not involved or get involved in activities you like to do.

If you have a girlfriend Talk to her...
If you have a female friend that you can talk to, open up to her.
Trust me, you can open up to your dudes but females have a way about helping us guys out in tough emotional times.

Always remember Prison "IS!" a good deterrent.

As you said your parents have been fighting your whole life and now they are divorcing and that is horrible and only you truly know how it makes you feel but even though nobody can totally understand how you feel, quite a few people can relate.

Keep in mind that you will be Ok!!

Keep posting

[DrPepper]

Yeah don't let it bother you too much. I didn't think my parents splitting up would bother me but it did but I made sure it didn't ruin what I had going for me.

[Deusxmachina]

I wasted my back shoveling this morning because someone wasn't home (guess who) and it was either me or the woman.

Does he have a job that pays the bills? If not, "alrighty." If so, "I'm 16 and had to shovel some snow for my parents! Oh noes...."

Complaining about shoveling snow, drinking beer, stealing CC numbers, wanting to transfer money out of his bank account. You sound like a brat, actually.

Having gotten that out of the way... in two years you can legally do whatever you want, so, if nothing else, you have at the most two years to wait before you can start living the rest of your life on your own.


Wait until you get "whatever" sorted out and drink/smoke for fun,

He's 16. What kind of advice is that? I expect better from you, jm. (slap)